What is Transbefrienders?
Transbefrienders is a peer support service for transgender youths in Singapore seeking assistance, friendship, and mentorship.
Founded in 2019 by Coen Teo & Rafa, Transbefrienders emerged from a recognition of the unique challenges faced by transgender individuals in our Singaporean community.
Transbefrienders recognises the need for peer support. While professional support systems such as counselling focus on medical and mental health, they are not always accessible due to cost and time constraints.
Additionally, mental health providers may not always be transgender themselves, potentially limiting their ability to fully understand and empathise with trans youths. This gap highlights the crucial need for peer support, where fellow trans individuals who serve as role models can provide help and a listening ear.
Our Vision
To enhance the lives of the gender-diverse community in Singapore with independence and happiness.
Our Mission
Transbefrienders encourages and journeys with gender-diverse individuals in Singapore to be confident and independent.
Our Befriending Programme
Our core initiative is the befriending programme, which matches youths with trained volunteers who have personally experienced gender dysphoria in Singapore, or around the world.
This unique approach ensures that our support comes from a place of genuine understanding and shared experiences.
Our Impact
Since our inception, we have expanded our services to include:
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One-on-one emotional support through befriending services
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TransNB Friends Support Group for sharing experiences and healing
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Student Support Scheme for trans students taking N, O, or A Levels. This support ensures our students have access to the study materials they need, we believe that just S$10 can make a huge difference.
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Educational programs and events to empower transgender youth and raise awareness
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Binder redistribution to assist with gender dysphoria alleviation
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Pageturner Book Club in collaboration with Pelangi Pride Centre.
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We are proud to be able to support 5 youth for three months at a cost of just S$20
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We provide a years’ tuition to one of our students for just S$50
With the implementation of our initiatives, we are able to provide better support for Singaporean transgender and gender-diverse youth.
Our Finances
If you would like to understand our financial landscape, download our Finances 2024 document and Annual Report 2024.
Here are our past Finances 2023 document and Annual Report 2023.
Our Team
Transbefrienders is proud to have a diverse and dedicated team of more than 30 talented cisgender, transgender, and gender-diverse individuals contributing to our cause.
Their tireless efforts and commitment to the community are deeply appreciated. Our core team includes:
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Seth Tjia (He/Him) - Director.
Seth has been an active member of Transbefrienders since 2020, contributing his expertise in transgender-related scientific research. Prior to joining the organization, he provided valuable resources and summaries of scientific literature for international online communities. He has also authored several national reports that highlight issues of the local transgender community. Seth is a molecular biology researcher and currently serves as the director of Transbefrienders. -
Tan Joo Hymn (She/her) - Director.
Joo Hymn is an active volunteer in civil service groups and past-president of AWARE (Association of Women for Action and Research) and a founding member of SAFE (Supporting, Affirming and Empowering our LGBTQ friends and family). She is also a trainer, lawyer and an early childhood educator. -
Dr Khoo Hoon Eng (She/Her) - Director.
Dr Khoo has held key positions in the education field and civil service groups including Faculty of Medicine (NUS) and AWARE. She is also the founder of SAFE Singapore. -
Dr Zheng Zhimin (She/Her) - Director.
Dr Zheng is a consultant psychiatrist in private practice with over 10 years of experience in general psychiatry in the public sector. She specialises in gender & sexual minority mental health and established the Gender Care Clinic in the public sector in August 2016. -
Coen Teo (He/Him) - Co-Founder/Operations Manager.
The idea of befriending was inspired by the peer support he received from a trans woman on SGButterfly, an online forum for transgender Singaporeans in the 2000s. Coen began his community work by documenting his transitioning journey on YouTube and providing information to transgender Singaporeans. He has contributed to several other LGBTQ+ groups, including Pink Dot SG, over a decade of advocacy. -
Rafa (He/Him) - Co-founder/Programme Manager.
Having understood the lack of information and resources for FTM folks back then, Rafa helped to fill in the gaps for transgender folks to improve their lives. He co-founded Bissu in 2017 as a community building group to empower the LGBTQ+ minority in Singapore, and has since started organising FTM workshops, gatherings and events to bring the community together, providing the much needed information, resources and safe space. Rafa co-founded Transbefriender in 2019. -
Ellie (She/Her) - Co-facilitator.
A trans woman currently doing research work in the University of York in the UK. While in the UK, she has also been joining a transgender support group, and learnt a lot about facilitating such groups from them, so she is bringing this back to Singapore! During her free time, she likes to play video games like Dead by Daylight, Company of Heroes and Sims. She also likes to watch anime, and read various fiction and non-fiction books. -
Aderyn (She/They) - Co-facilitator.
She is a non-binary trans woman staying in Singapore, currently studying a degree in Sociology and Anthropology, and they hold social issues of inequality and discrimination close to their heart.​ During her free time, she enjoys playing video games, watching cartoons, making music and playing Dungeons and Dragons! As the co-facilitator of the support group and the one who named TransNB Friends, they hope to meet other trans + non-binary folks who join us N B friends with you!
Each team member brings unique experiences and perspectives, contributing to the organisation's ability to provide comprehensive support and understanding to the transgender and gender-diverse community in Singapore.

Our Home
​We have a physical space called Lavender Nest by Transbefrienders which is a place where young individuals can find acceptance, gender care resources, and a community that understands and celebrates their unique journeys.
If you would like to visit, fill out our contact form to book an appointment.
Collaborations and Partnerships
​We have forged strong partnerships with other LGBTQ+ organizations in Singapore, including The Greenhouse, Oogachaga, The T Project and Pink Dot. These collaborations have resulted in impactful campaigns and initiatives, further extending our reach and support for the transgender community. Click here to find out more about our partners.
Join Us
At Transbefrienders, we believe in fostering an inclusive and welcoming community where everyone can feel safe, accepted, and empowered to be their authentic selves.
Whether you're seeking support or looking to volunteer, we invite you to be part of our journey to create a more understanding and supportive Singapore for all gender-diverse individuals.












